Life can be hard enough on its own, but when you start blaming yourself for things it only seems that much darker. So many of us have the tendency when things go wrong we blame ourselves. Maybe we didn’t try hard enough. Maybe we aren’t good enough. Maybe we aren’t special enough. You can’t control when life is going to give you a break but you do have control over your own mind. Sometimes things aren’t going to work out but that doesn’t mean it was because of you.
We blame ourselves for a variety of things. Not getting a job, having a relationship not work out, a child making bad decisions, not getting that ‘A’ on an exam…on and on the list can go. Not everything in life is going to work out the way you want it to, and you aren’t to blame. Maybe we blame ourselves because of our own insecurities.  We don’t have faith in our decisions and actions. The moment something doesn’t work out we blame ourselves because we doubted ourselves all along, to begin with. We knew we would fail; we just didn’t work hard enough, prepare enough, or be worth enough for this thing to work out.
The thing is if you want something, and I mean really want something, you will do everything you can. When it doesn’t work out that doesn’t mean you didn’t do everything in your power, it just means it’s not meant to be. Don’t blame or doubt yourself. Maybe it wasn’t the moment. Maybe it just isn’t meant to be. Learn to celebrate even when you don’t succeed. Success shouldn’t be defined by crossing the finish line, but by acknowledging the effort you put in.
Live life on your own damn terms manifesto
The internet is flooded with the advice of living life on your own damn terms. Every day you use social media & read motivational stories of some kids who are rocking the world with their startups, earning tons from it & lives a nomadic life which you only...
Been working on detachment lately, so this helps me get back in that mindset. Thank you.
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Glad to hear that… I was looking for the link to your website from quite a while…
Lovely website… Will look more deeply soon.. Have a great day.. Natalie The Alchemist 🙂
Thank you so much Vinay! I really appreciate it <3 You have a lovely day as well!
Life is hard and unfair , but it’s upto us how we play it , nice post ?
Well said…Life maybe hard and sometimes it can be unfair to, but all that matters is how we look at it. We can either cry for what we don’t have or we can enjoy in what we have. We must put a thin line between our wants and needs. Have a great day! Pia 🙂
Great post…sometimes its great to have a detox to relax from all the stress..i usually go on a digital detox where i just cut off from all technology ?
Digital detox sounds interesting.. will try this out… soon?? Have a great day!!!?
Hai. I really don’t know if you received my previous comment. But I’d really love to collaborate a blog with you. Seems like we both have the way to inspire people and the same kinda thoughts.
Haii Sashaaa, Yeah I got your previous comment. We do have same thoughts to inspire people… Let’s talk on any social platform or you can through me an email at info@vinaygarg.me Will see you soon. Have a rock and roll day!???
So nice to have your support. I did send you an email.